Why You Shouldn't Try To Be Impressive

Explicitly communicating who you are might be important yet not nearly as significant as your BEING precisely that person who you estimate you are and aspire to be.

In fact, trying to be impressive results in your not being impressive!

Whenever anyone 'tries to appear impressive', it results in their not being impressive! I'll outline the reason why

'Trying to appear impressive' tells anyone whom is the audience that *their* opinion of you is more important to you than *your* opinion of you!

On the other hand, actually *being impressive* is as effortless as can be! It takes no 'trying' and no conscious effort. It's just being - and in fact those whom are impressive rarely need to communicate that explicitly!
December 26, 2019