How To Find Control In Chaos
True – *Enlightened Control* – is your appreciating that one who cannot let go of control is one whom isn’t in control after all.
You can only be in control when you discover comfort and appreciation in *letting go* and your ability to dance between *response-ability* and *submission* or *comfort-within-chaos*
BEGIN WITH your looking into yourself with a keen eye and appreciating *you’re you* and what makes you, you, brings with it a lot of value from the macrocosm of being an appreciative and appreciating and accepting and confident and uplifting and optimistic person… to the microcosm of your ability to utter words and construct language and imbue feelings onto others.
THEN developing control over THAT and moving forward and being an encouraging and appreciating and empowering person with no other requirement than *your own* appreciation that YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOU for the things you do and you needn’t require the validation of anyone else to *be yourself*, after which you discover and finally appreciate YOU KNOW YOU and you know what you’ll do and you know what you’ll not do.
WHEN you’ve come to that point, you ARE *self-confident* – as in – you’re confident and appreciating as to *who you are*
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