How To Be An Independent Woman – When A Girl Truly BECOMES A Woman
A boy becomes a “man” when *he no longer seeks the ‘approval’ of others to be able to do as he’d like*.
Most men crave approval as a primary driving urge as an evolutionary adaptation.
Women are different.
So, when does a girl become a woman? A girl becomes a woman when she realizes that her *sensation* of “security” COMES FROM HER AND HER ALONE and appreciates that *it does not come from anywhere else*.
See, for a woman, security (more than approval) is her primary driving urge as an evolutionary adaptation. She would rather have security than approval.
I say “sensation of security” because SECURITY IS MERELY A SENSATION. In essence – there is no such objective thing as “security”, and I prove it to you.
How much money do you need when you’re on a plane and the plane is crashing down into the ground at 400 miles-per-hour? No amount of money will buy you security!
You can, for example, be like this obscure individual named Steve Jobs whom, despite being worth billions of dollars, died of pancreatic cancer at the young age of 50.
Remember always: No amount of money or resources will ever give you security – just merely the SENSATION (the feeling) of security.
SECURITY IS MERELY WHAT YOU CAN DO TO KEEP YOUR HEAD ABOVE WATER AND HOW YOU CAN INSPIRE OTHERS TO HELP IF YOU NEED IT.
So, when does a girl becomes a woman? She becomes a woman when she no longer seeks security from other people. SHE THEN BECOMES FREE.
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