How To Have Happy Relationships Where You Live The Biggest Life You Can
You must allow your beloved to live the biggest life they can.
The fundamental illogical and insidious phenomena in a relationship is the fear that creeps up when allowing your partner to choose and their not choosing you resulting in your feeling rage from that.
The question is, why would you *force* them to choose you?
It’s *essential* you open that relationship up so both you and your partner *always* have freedom to choose (ensured by always having choice in the first place) and demonstrating PROOF OF EACH OTHER’S LONGING (mutual belonging) through each others choosing to remain with one another despite each other’s vast option.
The *only* way you get to live a big life and honor and love and allow your beloved to live the biggest life they can is to accept them and happily give them freedom to choose and indulge in those things you’re both into yet also have others whom you can indulge in the things where you don’t share the same interests in.
This is the axiom of unconditional love.
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